On the Virtual Meet this week one of the contributers asked about telling others that you are a naturist.
How do you go about doing that when it could create embarrassment, confusion, mistrust, shock and other such reactions?
As was pointed out - most people are actually quite accepting and more curious than mistrusting - but the fact is it isn't easy.
It was mentioned that it is not something that naturists always have to bring up - you do not for example go around telling people what political party you vote for or whether you like red or white wine or hate wine all together unless there is a point to - but at the same time we should not hide from it.
Steve mentioned that it would be easier if people all understood what naturism was - one big problem is that naturism is still a rather hidden life choice and misunderstood by many (and mis-promoted by people on the internet too) which can lead to a disclosure of your naturism being a rather drawn out discussion of how it is safe, suitable and sensible - not sexual, sleazy and sinful. Steve said that what we really need is to ensure that society has a better understanding of what naturism is to make the job of naturists "coming out of the closet" that much easier. And referred to this Forum topic
https://www.anaturistworld.com/forums/topic/98/what-core-rules-should-exist-for-naturists-clubs with the idea that we need a universal description/guide for naturism that can help people understand exactly what naturism is and then also what it isn't.
That national bodies, clubs and sites like ANW need to be working at ensuring that naturism is properly understood as a core part of their own "business plan." After all until we ensure naturism is trusted and defined and understood how can we properly promote it, how can we encourage more to take part and how can we expect individuals to feel comfortable about telling others. If I ran a doughnut shop could I expect customers to come to my door if they did not know what doughnuts are? If someone says "I like skiing" they do not then have to explain what skiing is - it is understood and accepted - if the person they are talking to likes or hates or has never tried skiing or is afraid to is fine - because they know what skiing is. With naturism it is not so easy because a lot of people just do not know what naturism is and so it is simpler to not bring it up.
Where do we go from here? Please share your thoughts on this topic and the best way to get people to understand naturism and how you tell people about your naturism.